... *stares blankly* ... sorry. I'm having trouble even remembering that incident. I think I sort of remember who I was talking about... it wasn't meant to offend -- it was a genuine question of "damn, what gender is that person?" having been raised with "boys and girls," it's hard to truly be able to accept androgeny at face value without wondering what the deal is. even though i DO love androgeny. i love it because it's so rare.
*trying hard not to be defensive*