I'm not at an 'in between' place cos I'm not transitioning...figured I should point that out. I don't feel like I'm crossing...more like...Oh g-d I don't know. We really should talk about this through email, lol. Um, but it is weird coming from school where lots of my friends a) think about gender and b) have some idea of what sorta stuff I've been...I don't know...exploring? dealing with?...to home, where my older friends are just as fantastic as always, but let's just say it's not like w/one of my schoolfriends who says, "Hey, boy!"
And something we should speak about privately...have you felt not-yr-assigned-gender for a long long time? Cos I only sorta just started realizing...okay, I'm butch...okay, I have a lot of attachment to the word/identity 'woman,' but also to the word/identity 'boy'...so okay. I'm genderqueer...but am I trans?? etc. So yeah, this is so not the space to talk abou this. ;)
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Date: 2004-07-04 02:58 am (UTC)I'm not at an 'in between' place cos I'm not transitioning...figured I should point that out. I don't feel like I'm crossing...more like...Oh g-d I don't know. We really should talk about this through email, lol. Um, but it is weird coming from school where lots of my friends a) think about gender and b) have some idea of what sorta stuff I've been...I don't know...exploring? dealing with?...to home, where my older friends are just as fantastic as always, but let's just say it's not like w/one of my schoolfriends who says, "Hey, boy!"
And something we should speak about privately...have you felt not-yr-assigned-gender for a long long time? Cos I only sorta just started realizing...okay, I'm butch...okay, I have a lot of attachment to the word/identity 'woman,' but also to the word/identity 'boy'...so okay. I'm genderqueer...but am I trans?? etc. So yeah, this is so not the space to talk abou this. ;)