yeah....it did upset me... this is not the first time you've used me as an example of stuff that pisses you off on your livejournal. but i do know it was thoughtless of me to say that. i realize that now. truthfully, i didn't really think about it at all at the time. you think about gender issues so much more thoroughly (that's a major understatement, I'd say) than anyone else I know. of course you would be much more careful and thoughtful about how you think and speak about it! I seem like the biggest oaf by comparison, even though I feel like I'm extremely open minded and non-judgemental. i ought to talk to you more about this kind of thing, maybe i'd actually learn something. ;)
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Date: 2004-07-04 05:56 pm (UTC)